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Re: Would you continue to date someone who was not "marriage material" (to you)? - silvarios - 10-19-2014
Speedy wrote:
At my age, this works for me! And silvarios makes a good point that I can relate to. The debt part, though, would definitely be a deal breaker. She has to earn at least twice what I do to attract me.
Ha! Yeah, some debt is understandable, burdensome debt to the point of financial insolvency is not a great fit for me, assuming self imposed debt. Vacations, eating out all the time, lots of shopping for high price items, new cars all the time, etc. Being poor is okay (that's me if you take solely my earnings), making good money and being ridiculously upside down is not so great. We all understand illness and losing a job can bury a hard working person. I understand life taking the piss, because it gets us all from time to time, but let's not self inflict stupid onto ourselves.