12-02-2009, 04:48 PM
it's a girl thing; you're not responsible. however, i'd lobby for a no-gifts type of gathering for a 3rd child. anyone driven to give a gift still will but it let's others off the hook while still celebrating a wonderful event. a co-worker recently had a 3rd child shower and it did strike me as grabby.
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