Crap! The Time Traveler's Wife.

[Mini 9]

I think any old woman (and apparently ME, too!) that liked Chris Reeve's movie "somewhere in time", would feel right at home with this movie/story, too.

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0081534/

as for the 'hot', well, the story oscillates between a 6-8 year old girl, and a full grown woman/mom.