A newish phrase that simply MUST GO!

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I actually like the phrase simply because it's a sign of people letting go of something they have no control over. Their car was stolen - "It is what it is" seems like a better response than being angry.

I am trying to think of alternatives that capture the same essence, like "such is life" but I actually dislike that one more.

I'm sure there is a better way to say it, but what is it?