I think my Elderly Dad is abusing my also Elderly Mom..verbal and mental

[The UnDoug]

I would also think that it must be very trying/taxing on your dad to be living with a person suffering from dementia. We all snap at times, and to be dealing with what he must on a daily basis would surely be difficult.

Maybe some counseling or therapy for him, or some type of in-house caregiver who can lend a hand so that your dad doesn't have to shoulder so much of the burden, and deal with the frustration that dealing with your mom might be causing.

Sorry to hear about the situation. Good for you for reaching out for help!