Welcome to car talk! I have no idea what car to get

[rgG]

I think the Subaru might fit the bill for you
I have two friends who have them and both would and plan to buy them again

I just went through this same snake dance about buying a new car and it’s a pain.
I don’t have the same criteria as you, so the car I bought wouldn’t be a good fit, but I think the Subaru others have mentioned would be.