04-05-2007, 10:27 PM
Be friendly. Be comfortable. But if you're an a-hole then don't be yourself.
But don't be a friend. You don't want to end up in the Friend Zone. That's hell.
If she's leaving it up to you on what to do for your date then do things that you have control over - meaning places and activities that you can demonstrate value. If the crowd there knows you and welcomes you, all the better.
Just last night, I was waiting outside a restaurant for some friends when these three cute girls walk past. Now I'm dressed pretty casually so these girls don't pay me much attention and I made sure not to show any interest in them. My friends arrived and we walk in, the three girls are waiting for a table and the host knows my name and immediately seats me past these three girls.
Instantly, I've got power and value in the eyes of these women in spite of them ignoring me just a few moments earlier.
If you can maintain similar situations then your lady will know that you are a man of value that's worthy of putting her time and effort.
Good Luck!
PS - I know it's going to sound odd and corny, but take a look at those Pick Up Artist websites. There's some great socio-analysis going on there that gives great insight into the dating scene.
But don't be a friend. You don't want to end up in the Friend Zone. That's hell.
If she's leaving it up to you on what to do for your date then do things that you have control over - meaning places and activities that you can demonstrate value. If the crowd there knows you and welcomes you, all the better.
Just last night, I was waiting outside a restaurant for some friends when these three cute girls walk past. Now I'm dressed pretty casually so these girls don't pay me much attention and I made sure not to show any interest in them. My friends arrived and we walk in, the three girls are waiting for a table and the host knows my name and immediately seats me past these three girls.
Instantly, I've got power and value in the eyes of these women in spite of them ignoring me just a few moments earlier.
If you can maintain similar situations then your lady will know that you are a man of value that's worthy of putting her time and effort.
Good Luck!
PS - I know it's going to sound odd and corny, but take a look at those Pick Up Artist websites. There's some great socio-analysis going on there that gives great insight into the dating scene.