04-05-2007, 10:30 PM
Uhhh... I would never date someone who's married! 
Pam... that's interesting; what would you consider as some good "uncomfortable silence" questions?
Oh... and about the "Friend Zone" thing. My take on it -- and I was totally honest with her about this -- is that I would always want to be friends first with someone (anyone) that I was going out with. If something develops, great. If not, also fine. I can say that I do find her physically attractive (at least, what I have seen of her). She may or may not feel the same toward me, but if she doesn't find me attractive, I don't see how anything I do (or not do) will change that much. My overall impression of women-- correct me if I'm wrong-- is that they decide within the first 30 secs or so whether or not you are in the "friend zone" (or maybe even faster than 30 secs!). We men, we tend to be a little less discriminating.
Pam... that's interesting; what would you consider as some good "uncomfortable silence" questions?
Oh... and about the "Friend Zone" thing. My take on it -- and I was totally honest with her about this -- is that I would always want to be friends first with someone (anyone) that I was going out with. If something develops, great. If not, also fine. I can say that I do find her physically attractive (at least, what I have seen of her). She may or may not feel the same toward me, but if she doesn't find me attractive, I don't see how anything I do (or not do) will change that much. My overall impression of women-- correct me if I'm wrong-- is that they decide within the first 30 secs or so whether or not you are in the "friend zone" (or maybe even faster than 30 secs!). We men, we tend to be a little less discriminating.