Can an iPod be loaded with songs from a shared library?

[macphanatic]

I got my wife an iPod touch. She like to manage it using her work laptop (which has iTunes installed). I have a 90gig plus library on my Mac Pro. Library consists almost entirely of music that I've ripped from our cd's. Can she load her iPod using her computer and this library? If so, how? The main goal is to minimize the loading of music on her laptop hard drive.

If I can get this to work, I've got some iPhone/Touch apps she'd like to load as well.