02-24-2009, 07:07 PM
Bottom line is you either "want" to help or you "don't."
You're all intelligent enough to know that there is no way in hell to surgically determine who is gaming the system versus those that have suffered an unfortunate set of circumstances. That means arguing about it is b.s. If some gamers are enriched by the process, that's what's going to happen. Worrying about it is petty when you consider how desperate so many folks' situations are.
If you don't want to help, just be honest about it and say so. Don't couch it with all of the qualifiers.
You're all intelligent enough to know that there is no way in hell to surgically determine who is gaming the system versus those that have suffered an unfortunate set of circumstances. That means arguing about it is b.s. If some gamers are enriched by the process, that's what's going to happen. Worrying about it is petty when you consider how desperate so many folks' situations are.
If you don't want to help, just be honest about it and say so. Don't couch it with all of the qualifiers.