04-05-2009, 11:40 PM
I'm always reasonable on the first go-round. If I get a BS response, I get very mean right away. Maybe you don't need to be mean - yet.
What the seller is asking for is not reasonable. He would be under no obligation to refund your money after you leave + feedback.
Replay saying NO. Refund first else I contest this transaction with paypal. You hold all of the cards - all of the power. Don't just give it away.
Be firm, polite. Explain just like I did that this is not in your best interest and leaves you completely without recourse.
This is not extortion (he may accuse you) - you would be perfectly in the right.
What the seller is asking for is not reasonable. He would be under no obligation to refund your money after you leave + feedback.
Replay saying NO. Refund first else I contest this transaction with paypal. You hold all of the cards - all of the power. Don't just give it away.
Be firm, polite. Explain just like I did that this is not in your best interest and leaves you completely without recourse.
This is not extortion (he may accuse you) - you would be perfectly in the right.