07-22-2009, 11:13 PM
I think if it's occurring between consenting adults, that's their choice.
However, whether you should support your 21 year old son doing it, that's a wholly different question. Even if he's enjoying the "milk for free" arrangement, psychologically, it's probably not good for him. Gen Y also has a very different idea of what's acceptable sexually in general -- it seems they will have oral or "regular" sex at the drop of a hat, and it's almost nothing more serious to them than kissing.
Also, mikebw really does have a point, rarely are people (male and female both) truly honest about what they want.
However, whether you should support your 21 year old son doing it, that's a wholly different question. Even if he's enjoying the "milk for free" arrangement, psychologically, it's probably not good for him. Gen Y also has a very different idea of what's acceptable sexually in general -- it seems they will have oral or "regular" sex at the drop of a hat, and it's almost nothing more serious to them than kissing.
Also, mikebw really does have a point, rarely are people (male and female both) truly honest about what they want.