Gonna work an event with the ex...

[Rick-o]

Is Wayne Brady vision63 gonna have to choke a bitch!?!?

[miK.]

We're gonna be like three little Fonzies here. And what's Fonzie like?

Cool... ?

Exactamundo.

[haikuman]

This is an essential part of healing.
Let the bitterness fall away.
Let humbleness, kindness and self worth
fill your heart,

And remember *(:>*

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3GIQ86eu6c

Now your cool like always *(:>*:priate:

[RAMd®d]

... who kicked me to curb.

Couldn't do it.

Too cool to be "cool did it".

You're a far better man than I.

If it had been an amicable split, that would be completely different.

If the gig is something you're obligated to work and can't get out of it, or the git itself is too got to pass up in spite of her, well- ya gotta do what ya gotta do.

I'd be on no terms with her.

[NewtonMP2100]

....perhaps you need to EXorcise.....your demons.....??

[vision63]

Alright. It went ok. My emotions were on high, but my visible posture was one of take care of business. She brought along her annoying friend to assist. You guys really helped to set me right for the task.

But seeing my ex after so many weeks was so strange. Just looking at that person that adored me for so many years now just being very polite to me was dizzying. But I was still cool. I figured I better stick with haikuman's suggestions.

I was photographing the Zydeco band and she came to fetch me for a shot in another area. She stood there waiting for me to finish up and I stared at her in the face and hugged her for a long time. I told her I missed her every moment of every day. She said that she's not trying to hurt me. I told her that I had forgiven her a while back. I know that losing her mother altered her world.

So we finally finished and had to pack all of the gear up. I knew most of the people at the event so that was nice too. She and I chatted a bit more, said our goodbye's. Then I came home. I'm ready for some good days.

[N-OS X-tasy!]

Very classy - good on you.

[haikuman]

N-OS X-tasy! wrote:
Very classy - good on you.

Agreed ~!~ I am proud of you Vision .
Often in vulnerability we find courage.

You are da man *(:>*

[RAMd®d]

Major, MAJOR props.

'Tis a far, far better man you are...

I couldn't have done any of that. I would have been professional, but completely sterile, and Annoying Friend wouldn't have even registered.

So it would be better that I skipped the gig.

Hope you came out of it OK, because moments like that are never easy.

And maybe they shouldn't be, or we would be the less for it.

I may saddle up and take a ride just to celebrate your menschness, v., as I probably should learn from this.

[Janit]

You did well.

It is so very sad that, in trying to fix what is wrong with their own lives, people can inflict so much pain on others.