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Holy cr*p! It looks like I have a date this weekend...
#21
I think billb was talking about women wearing a conservative amount of perfume. But that's up to you.
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#22
Remember, most people like to talk about themselves. If you can get her onto a subject that she is interested in and be a good listener, then I predict things will go well. Unless of course you say something like, "Well, that's about the stupidest thing I have ever heard of," which I don't think you would do. Big Grin

And yes, mentioning all your wonderful cyber friends here at MR, might be better left for a later date. Also, if it is a dinner date, no onions or garlic and I am serious. Even if it doesn't get the least bit physical, just being around someone who has eaten a lot of onions or garlic can be bad.

That's all I got for now. Good luck and have a great time!
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#23
>Edit: If she's married, the above may or may not not apply.
Proceed with extreme caution, or, not at all.

LMAO!
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#24
No matter how tight the top, how big the contents, or how prominent the "temperture indicators", do not stare at her boobs. The occasional quick glance if she leans forward is excusable.


If she asks "would you like to come in for a drink/coffee?"
No matter how tired you are, no matter how early you have to be to work, no matter WHAT sort of physical distress you may be in...
The answer to that question is "Yes... I would..".

Whether that leads to anything is irrelevant... if you turn it down THIS time, it may be taken as a sign you don't EVER want to get into her pan.... uh, place.
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#25
If her cell phone keeps ringing AND she has to answer it ...
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#26
[quote Paul F.]No matter how tight the top, how big the contents, or how prominent the "temperture indicators", do not stare at her boobs. The occasional quick glance if she leans forward is excusable.


If she asks "would you like to come in for a drink/coffee?"
No matter how tired you are, no matter how early you have to be to work, no matter WHAT sort of physical distress you may be in...
The answer to that question is "Yes... I would..".

Whether that leads to anything is irrelevant... if you turn it down THIS time, it may be taken as a sign you don't EVER want to get into her pan.... uh, place.
LMAO

... I forgot to mention, this is a "day" date. That is, it's starting in the AM, going into the early afternoon, I presume. She's basically acting as tour guide. (This was all her decisionmaking, not mine-- I am happy to let her set the pace and the guidelines.) On the one hand, I think to myself... a date during daytime means non-interest, but... on the other hand... you wouldn't ordinarily spend a weekend morning with someone you didn't want to be with, would you?? I know I wouldn't! (Big Grin
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#27
That sounds like a great starting point. Numerous subjects to talk about during your "travels". Low key, low stress and low-ish expectations. Honestly, if you can't enjoy being with each other having adventures together, there really isn't anything that can survive long term anyway. You need to be friends first. (most of the time)

The way I look at it, someone you want to wake up with is far more important than someone you want to go to bed with.
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#28
Tell us more.
This is beginning to sound like a potentially dangerous woman with sly hooks.
You need a pre-dater to determine whether you should spend any more troubling analysis of this up-coming event.
I'm available.
:-)



Have a good time.
Sounds like she's come up with a good way to get to know someone better , without any expectations.
Have an enjoyable day.
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#29
[quote PeterB]I forgot to mention, this is a "day" date. That is, it's starting in the AM, going into the early afternoon, I presume. She's basically acting as tour guide. (This was all her decisionmaking, not mine-- I am happy to let her set the pace and the guidelines.)
Ah.

She sells timeshares.
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#30
[quote Racer X]That sounds like a great starting point. Numerous subjects to talk about during your "travels". Low key, low stress and low-ish expectations. Honestly, if you can't enjoy being with each other having adventures together, there really isn't anything that can survive long term anyway. You need to be friends first. (most of the time)

The way I look at it, someone you want to wake up with is far more important than someone you want to go to bed with.
Yes, that's what I thought too. Low-ish expectations means you can pretty much only be happily surprised (e.g., hopefully things can only go up from there). Also... her asking me out, and deciding on all the arrangements... this obviously really reduced the stress level on my part, totally put me at ease, and REALLY impressed me. I told her as much (about me being impressed). This in turn I think really put her at ease.
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