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Re: new relationship - Onamuji - 02-13-2017
testcase wrote:
BOTH of you should be tested for STDs. If needed, get treated. Then you'll both know you're safe. :oldfogey:
This, plus the golden rule of relationships: Don't talk about past relationships.
Inviting comparisons invites discord.
Re: new relationship - anonymouse1 - 02-13-2017
Iv always discussed that stuff after we made love the first time. Not immediately after, but not before. And the conversations tended to get shorter the older I was.
Re: new relationship - NewtonMP2100 - 02-13-2017
.....not in the beginning........questions like that may pop up long term.......
Re: new relationship - DinerDave - 02-13-2017
There is a difference between sharing info about yourself, and divulging too much.
Saying you are divorced, widowed, etc is one thing, don't blurt out lovers and conquests.
Dave
Re: new relationship - mrbigstuff - 02-13-2017
I like to tell my lover everything in the hottub!
Re: new relationship - Drew - 02-13-2017
In my very limited experience, at some point the lady will want to talk about the one(s) that hurt her, while the man will be tempted to talk about the one(s) that annoyed him. I recommend that the man not go there, because the lady will think that she's being compared.
Re: new relationship - maco - 02-13-2017
And then there is always the rule of three.
NSFW language.
https://youtu.be/9oVoJMVsKtk
Re: new relationship - Lux Interior - 02-13-2017
mrbigstuff wrote:
I like to tell my lover everything in the hottub!
Re: new relationship - rjmacs - 02-13-2017
Trust your gut. Unless your gut routinely gets you in trouble, in which case do the opposite.
Re: new relationship - NewtonMP2100 - 02-13-2017
.....again, someone shouldn't be asking such personal questions in the beginning [ MIGHT be red flag ]......this type of questions should be avoided but if discussed in a long-term relationship.......not a new one......