03-16-2009, 02:46 AM
I feel REALLY bad about that.
Don't. That, try not to.
The kid probably learned a great lesson from caring parents. Maybe two lessons:
He can't let a friend influence him when it comes to negative activity. He could have stood up to the "friend".
He has to understand what a "fried" is, and isn't.
And he *has* to accept responsibility. Lying is not accepting responsibility. His folks were "tough" on him for that as well as the vandalism.
You can be understanding and forgiving without letting him off the hook.
I'm glad it worked out for you, kat.
Don't. That, try not to.
The kid probably learned a great lesson from caring parents. Maybe two lessons:
He can't let a friend influence him when it comes to negative activity. He could have stood up to the "friend".
He has to understand what a "fried" is, and isn't.
And he *has* to accept responsibility. Lying is not accepting responsibility. His folks were "tough" on him for that as well as the vandalism.
You can be understanding and forgiving without letting him off the hook.
I'm glad it worked out for you, kat.