01-14-2013, 12:54 AM
She's 23. Her boyfriend told her--in a bar the night before--that he loved her, but wasn't IN love with her anymore. They've have had their ups and downs, but she sounded certain. I asked her four times during the course of the conversation if she was SURE she wanted to do this and she said yes each time. My husband and I, together with my sister and her husband, went over there, scooped up bed, TV, food, clothing, food, cats, etc. and brought them here. She went back for a few more items and...you guessed it. He cried and begged her to stay.
He probably looked around and saw he had no license (DUI), no car (broke down), no TV or bed (she paid for), and thought "Oh, sh*t. What'd I do?"
After we'd moved everything here, she asked us (my husband and I) what she should do. I told her the choice was up to her but made it clear that I thought they should move apart for at least a month.
We also said that we weren't moving the stuff back.
So she and her boyfriend came by and got her clothes and cats, the TV, and a few other things. The rest of the stuff is on our carport.
He probably looked around and saw he had no license (DUI), no car (broke down), no TV or bed (she paid for), and thought "Oh, sh*t. What'd I do?"
After we'd moved everything here, she asked us (my husband and I) what she should do. I told her the choice was up to her but made it clear that I thought they should move apart for at least a month.
We also said that we weren't moving the stuff back.
So she and her boyfriend came by and got her clothes and cats, the TV, and a few other things. The rest of the stuff is on our carport.