10-16-2014, 09:56 PM
cbelt3 wrote:
So what do you want out of the relationship ? And is she genuinely reflecting WHO she is, or what she thinks you want ? Relationships are incredibly complex. Time for clear and concise communication ?
Many women are taught to 'act dumb' because 'men are threatened by smart women'. When in fact many of us guys find smart women to be wonderfully attractive (mrs. cbelt3 is WAY smarter than I am.. even more so nowadays.)
I would like someone who excites my mind AS WELL AS my body (she has, flat out, the sexiest body of any woman I have ever been with). Her mind, on the other hand, leaves me wanting to roll over and go to sleep afterwards. I think after the dust has settled, she is showing me who she really is and I am not interested anymore (the vibe I am getting is that she is drifting as well, so it is not all a loss).
Personally, I would love a brilliant woman, someone who can "hold their own" in a conversation, and then some. Looks are indeed a factor, yet I know that looks fade.
I feel that I will be chalking this up to a rebound relationship and working on other things in my life (and enjoy being single).