10-16-2014, 10:03 PM
testcase wrote:
As we get older, I would think the physical love would be more difficult than the mental part. I also think that, if there is to be a deficiency in only one area, the mental ~ maturity side should be easier to correct than the physical side. People are exposed to new ideas, new technology all the time. Unless she's totally close minded and shut up in her own small world, exposure to a bigger world could get her to realize what she's been missing and, if she's willing to participate in meaningful discussions, use new technology, her mind can be expanded more readily than it would be to get her open her body.
The problem is that she is QUITE stubborn and unwilling to change. Another problem is that she is unwilling to push herself to get what she wants out of life. When I gave her a gentle nudge to get reconnected with her clients (and make more money to pay down her insane debts), this turned into a huge fight. The physical end is no problem; we both find each other alluring (and the attraction is almost at a chemical level). The issue is that is all there really is between us.