10-17-2014, 12:56 AM
It's been almost 25 years, but I was in a situation like this. She definitely thought I was marriage material. We went to visit my best friend after dating a few months, and he told me afterwards that his wife said all she could talk about was how much she wanted to marry me. Even though she was book smart (she was a nurse, actually), she had zero common sense. Physically, things were great. But she drove me crazy. It took a while, but I finally realized there was no way I could ever marry her. It was hard to break up with her, but it was the right decision.