03-24-2006, 09:09 PM
dmann Wrote:
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> 3d- as TEMPTING of an offer as that is, I think
> I'll pass on posting a pic. Enough people on this
> forum have met me in person and can vouch for my
> appearance (or lack thereof!)
>
> You guys aren't helping me here. I can play the
> "email. Don't email" game by myself. I was hoping
> for a strong consensus!
>
> DM
OK, ok... How about this...
Wait til "trisho" chimes in with her advice. And do what she suggests. I think she is single, in your age range and dating. LOL
Re: looks
Oh stop it! I'm sure you're exaggerating. There are a TON of guys here. Can it be any worse than speed dating with complete strangers?! This is where you gotta be aggressive. You have to be aggressive in putting yourself out there. DO NOT be aggressive in how you contact guys. It's a red flag. Double standard? Yes. Fair? No. It's about emotional attachements. Hey,, if you can handle it. Go for it. Call this guy who's been ignoring you for a week. Let's hear his excuse. I bet it'll be good
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> 3d- as TEMPTING of an offer as that is, I think
> I'll pass on posting a pic. Enough people on this
> forum have met me in person and can vouch for my
> appearance (or lack thereof!)
>
> You guys aren't helping me here. I can play the
> "email. Don't email" game by myself. I was hoping
> for a strong consensus!
>
> DM
OK, ok... How about this...
Wait til "trisho" chimes in with her advice. And do what she suggests. I think she is single, in your age range and dating. LOL
Re: looks
Oh stop it! I'm sure you're exaggerating. There are a TON of guys here. Can it be any worse than speed dating with complete strangers?! This is where you gotta be aggressive. You have to be aggressive in putting yourself out there. DO NOT be aggressive in how you contact guys. It's a red flag. Double standard? Yes. Fair? No. It's about emotional attachements. Hey,, if you can handle it. Go for it. Call this guy who's been ignoring you for a week. Let's hear his excuse. I bet it'll be good
