03-24-2006, 09:23 PM
Let him eMail you first. If you eMail him first you'll be seen as "easy". If you don't hear from him, move on.
Good god. Well it's good to actually hear of the different opinions here, on how people would respond if the woman called first. It shows that you can not second-guess anyone as to how they'd react.
My 2ยข: fer gosh sakes, call him. You have NOTHING to lose. If the guy happens to be of the kind that translates 'you called first" into "wow, she's easy", you will pick that up in about 15 minutes of the date, and you can make the evening as short or long as you want to.
Personally, I think an enormous amount of suffering and loneliness would just go away if people were a bit more straight forward, took some initiative, and broke a few of the dumber rules and assumptions that freeze people into place.
Good god. Well it's good to actually hear of the different opinions here, on how people would respond if the woman called first. It shows that you can not second-guess anyone as to how they'd react.
My 2ยข: fer gosh sakes, call him. You have NOTHING to lose. If the guy happens to be of the kind that translates 'you called first" into "wow, she's easy", you will pick that up in about 15 minutes of the date, and you can make the evening as short or long as you want to.
Personally, I think an enormous amount of suffering and loneliness would just go away if people were a bit more straight forward, took some initiative, and broke a few of the dumber rules and assumptions that freeze people into place.