03-24-2006, 09:40 PM
I'm a guy (37 last month).
You have a clear story here.
He went to a speed dating event.
He checked you as a "yes".
It's a no-brainer. Contact him.
I can understand defending the position of "let him call you first" if you first met in the checkout line at the grocery store or he's an acquaintance of your brother. I would feel a bit awkward being contacted by a lady first in those dating-ambiguous situations.
But he already made a "first move". Contact him.
Ask him if he wants to meet you for coffee or lunch or catch a movie in the evening or whatever. I'll admit I haven't dated very much, but I am in a relationship now (almost 3 years) so my advice isn't totally worthless.
You have a clear story here.
He went to a speed dating event.
He checked you as a "yes".
It's a no-brainer. Contact him.
I can understand defending the position of "let him call you first" if you first met in the checkout line at the grocery store or he's an acquaintance of your brother. I would feel a bit awkward being contacted by a lady first in those dating-ambiguous situations.
But he already made a "first move". Contact him.
Ask him if he wants to meet you for coffee or lunch or catch a movie in the evening or whatever. I'll admit I haven't dated very much, but I am in a relationship now (almost 3 years) so my advice isn't totally worthless.