03-24-2006, 10:45 PM
DM, just to point out-- do NOT assume he's not interested (and project that feeling in an email). From your description, you do not know WHAT he's thinking... there could be any number of explanations besides the particular one that 3d gave (that he's been "ignoring you for a week") ... he could have been busy with work, ill, etc. For example, if I were to put myself in his shoes... could be he's just shy, and wants to make a first move but is afraid to do so. At least, that might be how I would behave in such a situation. By your making that first move, you're therefore taking the pressure off...
Edit: somehow I doubt your tall, blonde friend is going to contact him, even though he checked her off as "yes". Don't assume that just because he checked off both of you as "yes", that he's no good... could be he honestly liked both of you. The only way to know would be to know if he also checked a lot of people or everybody as "yes", but you just don't know that-- and even if you did, I'm not sure you could assume much from that.
Edit: somehow I doubt your tall, blonde friend is going to contact him, even though he checked her off as "yes". Don't assume that just because he checked off both of you as "yes", that he's no good... could be he honestly liked both of you. The only way to know would be to know if he also checked a lot of people or everybody as "yes", but you just don't know that-- and even if you did, I'm not sure you could assume much from that.