[quote wowzer]Only question about the honda is the transmission on the 2004 Odyssey's. Make sure that the waranty will cover the transmission. The 2nd gear is notoriously prone to failure---and usually a catastrophic lurch as you are driving. Honda has re-engineered the transmission and the newer one is supposedly safe from the failures. Ask if the transmission was replaced or not...if not, then be careful, Honda extended the transmission warranties to 7 yr/100,000miles. That being said, I'd still stick with the Honda.
I believe the 2005 models do not suffer from this transmission problem.
The extra (free) warranty was for the '99-'01 Odysseys, because those trannies were bad. In '02? they went with the 5-sp auto. There have been some reports of similar problems with the 5-sp autos as well, and the '04 shares that tranny. I read somewhere that the Ody was to get the Ridgeline's beefier tranny but not until the model changeover. Was that '05 or '06?
In any event you're still better off with the Honda, even if it was only an LX and not an EX-L. Resale value will be much higher down the road, and in the meantime it'll be much nicer to drive. That $2000 difference will actually pay for itself later.
We owned an '03 EX-L brand new. Really nice van. Sold it because the payments were killing us. In 2006 got an '04 Mazda MPV LX with 9.xxx miles from a Chevy dealer for $14,xxx. I don't miss the power doors, although the MPV ES has that and leather.
We love it. It drives as well or better than the Ody, although neither will be as quiet and smooth as a late-model Sienna. All are leagues better than a Kia/ Hyundai in terms of refinement.
ugh i hate spending a few hours making decisions i have to live with for years!
Then keep going. Seek out an '04-'06 MPV to compare. As long as you can get over the fact that it's a little less roomy inside than the other vans, it should be a contender.
In '03 our objection to the MPV was the smaller size because of a baby carrier that forced us to have to move the front passenger seat all the way forward, unlike the Ody and other big vans. But by '06 when we (somewhat unexpectedly) found ourselves looking again (re: Ody payments) that was no longer an objection, EVEN THOUGH by that time we had another baby to cart around.